The Not so Natural Flow of Things

“Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them; that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.” 
― Lao Tzu

Change, we all take it differently.  We change ourselves for the better, so we think.  Change - I like it, some say.     Change - I hate it, its not for me.    Change - To gain acceptance for the sake of our real selves.

MERRIAM WEBSTER SAYS -  CHANGE - verb - to make different in some particular; to make radically different; to give a different position, course or direction to; to make a shift from one to another; TO UNDERGO A MODIFICATION; TO UNDERGO A TRANSFORMATION


Norman Vincent Peale said - "Change your thoughts and you can change your world."
Mahatma Ghandi said - “Be the change that you wish to see in the world.”

Our brain is willing to adopt change and how we can transform our thoughts to ultimately transform our lives, meaning our thought process changes to fulfill what we think we are missing, I think ... 
The way we think affects the way we feel and then in turn "lays out" the quality of life we give ourselves and sometimes indirectly to others.
Transforming our thoughts sometimes can change in a blink of an eye and in other times we may need a little coercion to allow the change to flow, to pool into our mind, to sit and push us into a different direction.  We can create for ourselves affirmations whether they be positive or negative - I can't do this (negative) ... I am going to do this (positive) ... I should have done .... (negative) ... I will be doing ... (positive).  These are either going to be forceful or weak and we have to choose for ourselves how we are going to handle the CHANGE.

Sometimes, and I am very guilty of this almost everyday, we dwell on our misfortunes and failures and by doing this we subject ourselves to a negative thinking base and we feel that there will absolutely never be change in our fortune or future.

There are many people and I have a few on my Social Network that are just happy bubbly people all of the time - those are the kind of people that I do the "GAG ME" action with my pointer finger to the back of my throat ... but when you stop and think about it - something in their life changed that makes them feel that way or they are on some REALLY GOOD MEDS ... and if that is the case - SERIOUSLY throw some over here!!!! Then on the other end there are those on my Social Network that are ABSOLUTELY MISERABLE EVERYDAY and those people just exhaust me!!!! I mean literally exhaust the very core of that emotion, that miserable, I HATE EVERYONE, EVERYBODY IS A DOUCHEBAG, WHY DO I PUT MYSELF THROUGH THIS WASTED TIME (and keep going back to complain about it EVERYDAY) thought process ... those are the ones I want to just put my hand through the computer screen and choke them until their eyeballs pop out of their heads ... there I said it ... YEAH I SAID IT!!! ... lol
Anywho, the reason I am writing a Blog and eventually Vlog is because I think that if more people knew that there are those out there in the cyber world, virtual world - REAL WORLD - that have the same feelings, similar experiences and need someone to vent to, and are not alone - then I am doing something right ... I would like to think anyway ... 

So I have decided to just let this change in my life naturally flow, be it weird, CrAzzEE or maybe not even interesting, thats ok ... I am definitely going to have fun with this and hopefully a few of you will have some fun too ... sometimes we are very inquisitive as to what and how others feel and think and are willing to read, watch their successes and failures, as EPIC AS THEY MAY BE, and to laugh either with or at them ... either way its all good